Learning something can be said to be a process where you have made changes to your brain to the point of now being able to produce new thoughts in response to internal thoughts or external impressions. These thoughts produced will be perceived by you and conscious ones will carry some meaning.
Your question asks how we are able to create and edit these pathways which provide the framework for generating these thoughts/ideas, which has been the purpose of the learning.
Neuron activation is the most prevalent and known activity in the brain which relates to the phenomenon of having thoughts. When a neural is activated, its dendrites and axon terminals prime for connection with other neurons, they do this by physically extending its axons out into space in an effort to encounter another brain cell reaching out for connections. In this case, both neurons are activated and this is causing them to reach out for connections. Because both neurons are reaching out, naturally, there is a higher chance that they come close to each other, are attracted to each other, and as a result, bind together, forming a connection between them. This connection now means that when one neuron is activated, the other will react in some way, which is what facilitates thought.
This process does not involve back propagation. It is an absolute bond which forms in real time, of which can be said to have had an absolute point in time when that connection was established, and this connection has one effect, to allow for transmission of chemicals between the connected neurons which allows for them to have an effect on each other. Back propagation involves many nodes in a neural network and allows for the editing of multiple nodes in one sweep, which is not similar to how the brain functions.
Researchers postulate how the brain learns without back propagation, but the brain and a computer, which a neural network runs on, are different, therefore its wrong to assume brains need back propagation to learn just because current forms of neural networks need back propagation to learn. A computer which a neural network runs on is a bunch of transistors, and gates, which perform operations for the purpose of turning transistors either on or off. The brain is a network which runs on atoms and molecules which are constantly affecting each other in a dynamic ever changing way, with other avenues for altering its structure. A neural network is a purposefully constructed network which has absolute mechanisms for altering itself which have been programmatically implemented to be its primary way of learning.
Ultimately, the brain does not conduct itself, and is not constructed, upon the same underlying structure as a neural network, which is what allows it to learn in ways that don't require back propagation.