I see many children that do (at times) not listen to their parents, or even do the complete opposite of what other people want them to do. That while the social environment supports them (with positive feedback on positive behaviour and possibly negative feedback on negative behaviour) to do what they are told.
Do we know the main drivers for why kids (at times) do not do what they are told to?
Is it their drive for freedom and autonomy? Attention? Something else?