I know these are wrong trains of thought and would love for someone to shed some light on the matter.

  1. Wouldn't that make them feel truly "disabled" in the sense of they know such extra well behavior is stemming from "pity" or similar feelings?
  2. On the other hand, wouldn't lack of such extra well mannerism towards someone with a disability would drag him to a victim mentality?

Thank you fro your time!

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put on hold as primarily opinion-based by Bryan Krause, AliceD yesterday

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  • $\begingroup$ What you are talking about requires you to look at the difference between empowering and enabling. Enabling encourages repeat of "oh, I can't do it!". Empowering encourages looking at things differently whilst looking at what can be done to change the situation, and accepting those situations that can't be controlled. Google "empowering vs enabling" $\endgroup$ – Chris Rogers yesterday

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